Tips for Getting Online Sites to Publish Your Work by Patrick Bailey

Happy Wednesday everyone. This week I welcome Patrick Bailey to my blog to share his tips for getting online sites to publish your work. If you have an idea for a blog post that you would like to share, contact me and let’s chat about it. I’m always open to guest bloggers.

Check out one of my other guest blogs by Thao Nguyen on The 10 Best Covers of 2020 (So Far).

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So, you want to get published online. You’re in good company. According to some estimates, nearly 200 million people want to publish. The chances of publishing a book seem like they’re one-in-a-million, but those odds are substantially better for those looking to publish your writing to online sites or portals.

The difference between a successful online writer and aspiring one can involve a few very simple tips. Here are some tips that could give you a fighting chance in the submission and online publication process.

Follow the submission guidelines.

One of the easiest ways for online publishers to weed through the onslaught of submissions is to quickly verify whether the writers have followed the publishers’ submission guidelines. The guidelines often encourage you to download a sample of the publication to see the type of articles it publishes, but the publication might also request you to incorporate specific formatting and stylistic features.

Note if the publication only accepts submissions during certain times of the year, or if it’s requesting submissions based on scheduled themes throughout the year. For example, if the publication is accepting submissions about inpatient alcohol rehab, the editor will not accept submissions covering other topics or subject areas.

Proofread.

Another common reason why editors reject work is that the submissions have problems with grammar, spelling, and/or usage. When a submission is riddled with errors, the editor or reviewer may assume that there are deeper, more systemic problems with the submission.

Beyond accuracy, the submission could have issues with clarity or coherence. The messy work could point to lapses in understanding or judgment and could hint at a relationship that could be thorny and unproductive from an editorial point of view. If it’s impossible for you to proofread your own work, ask a friend or colleague who can honestly and thoroughly review your work prior to submission or hire the services of a professional editor.

Target Your Audience.

Yet another important part of reviewing the submission guidelines is determining your audience. Who are you writing for and to?

Your target audience may be a person in his or her forties who is planning a great adventure. Or it could be a 20-year-old individual who is looking for addiction treatment options or other medical assistance. The audience you’re writing for could be your best friend or your worst enemy. It’s essential to know your audience so that you can craft your writing style in a way that will meet the needs and desires of that demographic.

Polish Your Query.

For many submissions, your query letter is the first impression the editor or reviewer will receive regarding your writing. Until they read your query, you are just one of the many writers who are hoping to capture their attention. So, try to do that.

You need to carefully incorporate tidbits from the submission guidelines to demonstrate that you know what editors and reviewers want, but then you must show them that you have the level of expertise that makes you the best person who can deliver on the topic.

Hook Your Reader.

Hooking your reader is part of the query, but you must take that compelling force of words through to the submission. You must inspire your reader to sit up and take notice, but you also need to make your case so intriguing that he or she is enticed to read to the very end.

It’s like hooking a fish. After you’ve caught it, you have it where you want it. Then, you have to reel it in and close the deal with your words.

Make the Organization Clear.

You’ve probably seen all sorts of clever techniques that relate to organizing your writing. That might be great when you’re an established writer with a string of editors who are waiting for your next submission. But when you’re making your first submission, the organization has to be clear and concise.

Instead, focus on making sense. Yes, the editor and reviewer might guess what you’re up to when you take poetic/creative license, but to make your submission stand out, make your organization clear. Your editors will thank you.

Speak with Your Own Voice.

Here, too, you might have a wonderful sense of mimicry and inspired creative diction, but when you’re submitting a piece for publication, write it in a straightforward way. Let your own voice shine.

Let your editors know that you have something to say and say it. Don’t leave the editor or reviewer guessing what you’re trying to do. Worse yet, don’t let them think that you’re trying to steal another’s voice.

Be Honest with Yourself.

How would you assess your article? It’s sometimes easy to be so relieved when you’ve finished a submission that you send it in right away. You don’t let it sit for a while. You don’t review the guidelines. You might even neglect another round of proofreading.

Remember, though, that writing is not something that can be rushed. It takes time and effort. Sometimes you need to take a step back and be honest with yourself. Is this submission something that you’d like to read? Is it good, maybe even great? How could it be better?

If you were the only person in the world who was submitting your work for publication, you might not really have to worry about quality. You may not even care what people think. You’d be a shoo-in.

But, you’re facing steep competition to have your work published. You’re competing against some of the most brilliant and creative minds in the world. Your work can’t just be good. It has to be great. Is your submission up to par?

Sources

lunchticket.org - On the Importance of Following Submission Guidelines

emeraldgrouppublishing.com - Proofreading Your Manuscript

umgc.edu - Online Guide to Writing and Research

stlcc.edu - Hooking Your Reader

unr.edu - University Writing & Speaking Center

Being Thankful

Happy Wednesday Scribblers I hope you’re all doing well today. Since US Thanksgiving is coming up next week (can you believe it) I thought I would spend some time sharing all the things I’m thankful for. I also, thought doing this would be a good reminder, especially for myself, given all that has been happening in the world and here at home these last several months.

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To start, I’m thankful for is being healthy. Given everything that has happened with COVID-19 I’m grateful that I’ve remained healthy, not only me but Eric and my dad as well. I’m hopeful we will continue to remain in good health as we continue down this crazy path that has been 2020 and into whatever will come our way in 2021.

Continuing on, I’m thankful that Eric and I have been able to work and our jobs have been stable during this time. A lot of people have not been so fortunate, so even though there are days were work can be insane I’m grateful. I’m also grateful for the work I do, my agency has helped thousands of people during this awful time and we will continue to do so. Knowing this makes me doubly blessed.

This is a two-for-one, I’m grateful to have both a safe place to live and plenty of food to eat. It’s something many of us take for granted and I definitely want it to be known how grateful I am.

Tying into the first one on my list, I’m thankful that a majority of my family and friends have also remained healthy during this. Sadly, this is not 100%, we lost a few people to this terrible pandemic and they will be missed. However, a majority of everyone we know remain healthy. Which I’m very thankful for.

Next up, is that I’m thankful to have published six books with two more coming out next year. This has been incredible and I’m so blessed to have this experience. Oh and if you haven’t read all my books, you can find them here or anywhere else you buy books from.

Fitting in with having these amazing books published is that I’m thankful for all of you who continue to support me and my writing. These last several years have been amazing and I couldn’t be prouder to have gotten to know you all and hear from you. I look forward to this pandemic being behind us so I can get out there and meet folks face-to-face again.

And last on my list, is meeting so many fellow authors (both members of and nonmembers of the Queer Community) they are all wonderful and supportive. They really have been a joy to get to know and learn from.

That’s my list. I’m sure there is a bunch of stuff I’m missing, but I believe this covers the big stuff. If you enjoyed this week’s post check out some of my other posts that are positive and uplifting in case you need the pick-me-up:

The Week Before Thanksgiving. In this blog post, I focus on all that is good as I work through my preholiday funk. Check it out here.

Stop Being Negative and Don’t be a Jerk. Really, it’s all about being a better human being. In this Memorial Day post, I share my thoughts on not being a jerk (something I still struggle with). Check it out here.

Thank you all for stopping by and taking a few minutes to show your support. It really does mean the world to me. What are you thankful for? Have you taking the time to count your blessings? Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you found my insights interesting think about sharing it. Got a question or want to share what you are thankful for feel free to leave it in the comments below. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Kindness

Happy Wednesday Scribblers I hope everyone is doing well today and you are all taking good care of yourselves. This week I want to talk about kindness…

Ugh. I hear you all saying.

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But, being kind is something in short supply these days and has been in short supply for quite some time. Given everything that has happened the last several years and especially the last several months I’m asking people to be kind to one another. Kindness doesn’t cost anything and is pretty easy.

I’m not asking you to do anything else, you don’t have to embrace your abuser, you don’t have to be passive, you don’t have to hide your hurt, you don’t have to hide your anger. You don’t have to hide your glee. You aren’t being asked to tone done the celebrations. All you need to do is be kind.

Why do I keep saying this? Why do I keep asking you to be kind to one another?

Here’s the thing. I remember as a kid all the awful and horrible things that were said about me and too me. I remember being bullied, I remember crying and wondering why no one liked me. I remember someone threatening to throw me into a fire because no one like me and everyone wanted me dead (yes this really happened).

As I got older, I remember being called more names and having people threaten me to the point where a sheriff had to follow me home for several days to ensure I wasn’t attacked or beaten up…or worse.

As I got older still, I was lucky and I was able to melt into the background of High School I wasn’t picked on too much, which was a relief. After school, once I came out and started going to clubs with my friends, the name calling, the threats, the bullying, etc. started back up.  A friend and I were attacked one night and, on another night, we were harassed by the police.

Once I joined the working world (with a real job), I had a boss who was a bully. He would hover over me not saying anything and watch me. The abuse got so bad that I ended up in therapy for a while. It got so bad, that when I went to the big boss, I was told I should quit because they weren’t going to do anything about it. I resigned at that point and went to a lawyer to see what could be done only to find out there was nothing that they could do. The Lawyer would be happy to file suit, but the odds of me winning were less than zero and it would cost me a fortune. They also said that any media attention would ruin my chances of getting hired anywhere.

I was in my mid-twenties.

Why am I sharing any of this, most of which I haven’t thought about in years, because through all this, I tried to remain kind to people. I smiled, I laughed, I lived my life as best I could. I figured the only thing I had any control over was how I reacted. I didn’t come by this realization alone, it took therapy. Anyway, I could have been angry. I could have been cruel. I could have been petty. I could have treated them just as badly as they treated me.

And, yes, there were times I did all of that.

The company that forced me to quit, made the mistake of telling me I could still attend the company Christmas Party. Oh, and did I attend. I called one of my best friends at the time, who happened to be gorgeous and asked if he would help me in a little pay back. He jumped at the idea. We showed up at the party all decked out, and we put on a show. The boss who asked for my resignation was there of course and so was my bully. I ignored them both and turned my back on them and walked off when they came up to greet us. The rest of the night my buddy and I danced, made out, and made sure that this last work event I went to went down in the history books. I was so proud of myself for the way I handled it. I showed them. I gave them a taste of all the BS they had forced on me and they had to take it. Every bit of it.

I felt vindicated.

Then a couple days later I heard, that no one cared. That I looked petty. I looked childish. All I had done was reinforce their opinions about me. Not only had I burned that bridge, but I blew it up, salted the Earth and nuked the surroundings.

Was it a personal victory? Sure.

Am I proud of what I did and how I acted? Not really.

Despite this being what I would call a victory it meant nothing to them. They could point to me and how I acted and say, “That’s what we dealt with daily. That’s why he’s not here anymore.”

None of true. But it didn’t matter. I had made such a show of it, that people believed them.

I didn’t make a point. I didn’t make a statement. I played the fool and looked the part.

I wonder what would have happened if I showed up and was kind. Thankful for all the wonderful people I met there. If I held up my head and treated them the way I always wanted them to treat me. What if I shook their hands, smiled and thanked them? Could I have done it? I would like to think so, but I can’t say for sure, because I was so hurt and angry.

The reality is I’ll never know.

I believe 100% that what I should have done, is been kind at the very least. I could have smiled. Talked to my friends and been polite to my former boss and not turned my back on them and walk way. Then they would have had nothing negative to say about me, and they would have looked like idiots when people asked why I wasn’t there anymore.

Ah well. A lessoned learned I suppose.

What I want you think about is this, what does it cost you to be kind? How does it make you look? Why should you take the high road? What will people in your wake of nastiness say about you? Because trust me there will be a wake, people won’t forget. They may understand and agree but in the back of their minds they will always questions when you are going to blow up or act up again and are they going to be on the receiving end.

That is the cost that hinds behind cruelty and hate.

For me I’m not kind for any of them. I do it for me. I do it so I can hold my head high and know that despite all the awful, horrible things that are done and said to me. I didn’t let them win. I showed them that they can’t pull me down. That at the end of the day I was the better person. I did what was right. Even though it hurt and was hard as hell, I passed the test of being a decent human being.

You don’t have to embrace your enemy to be kind. You just have to show them that they have no power over you. You aren’t giving them space in your mind or in your emotions. Despite all the crap they put you through, here you are; strong, powerful, in charge, and living your best life. They didn’t win. You won.

You won!

You won, because they mean so little to you that nothing they did affected you. Even if you go home and need to cry, or whatever you have to do to heal. When it comes down to it, when you are petty, nasty, and mean. You are validating the worst that they pointed out in you, and not only did you show them, but you showed the rest of world too.

Be kind. It costs you nothing.

Being kind isn’t giving up. It’s not condoning their behavior. Being kind is you keeping your power and your strength. Kindness shows the world that you can go out and fight for all that is good in the world. You can fight for the change you want to see and at the end of the day, you can still be a kind and good person. Your victory won’t be built on cruelty or nastiness, but on a smile and a kind word.

Some of you won’t agree with me. Some of you are still hurt and angry by so many things. I know nothing anyone will say will change that and I’m sorry.

I’ll tell you all this truth about me. There is a lot I’m still hurt and angry about. I still think people don’t like me. I still live in the world where someone is trying to push me into a fire because no one could ever like or care about me. Sometimes, I still hear my former boss standing over my shoulder breathing, watching me work, just to torture me. When I see a sheriff’s vehicle my mind flashes to when I had to have an escort home from school so nothing would happen to me. When I see a police car I often think is this person going to pull me over and harass me. When Eric and I are out on the streets or somewhere public I look over my shoulder to see where he is and to see if anyone is watching us or going to say or do something to us. Those hurts and fears never go away, they are there, at least for me.

But I don’t let them make me bitter and angry.

At the end of the day. I’m still going to be kind, or at least try to be. Because out of everything, that is what I can control.

That’s all I got for you. If you are still reading and want a bit more from me. Check out some of these past posts you might enjoy:

Where has all our Mutual Respect Gone?

This is another piece about how we treat each other and why at the very least we need to have some kind of mutual respect (much easier said than done). Click here.

Where has all our Mutual Respect Gone?

Want to hear my thoughts on “Polite Society” and how I don’t always agree with it. Check out this post here.

 All about San Jose, California.

This is a fun post about my home town. Where I grew up and where me and Eric live. Click here to learn more, especially since it’s the location where most of my books are set.

I hope you enjoyed, or at least got through this and understand a bit more about me. Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you found this information interesting think about sharing it. Got a question feel free to ask in the comments below and I’ll do my best to answer it. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Where in the World can you find my Books?

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Happy Wednesday Scribblers I hope everyone is doing well today.  For me it’s been a crazy few weeks and I’m mentally and physically exhausted.  However, I, we, keep pushing forward.  Today I wanted to do a shout out to all the locally owned bookstores that have my books in house.  Of course, you can go to any bookstore and ask them to order my book for you (which I recommend as it’s a great way to support a local business or two).

Here are all the book stores (from around the world) that currently carry one or more of my books:

Austria:

Löwenherz bookstore

Berggasse 8A-1090 Vienna

www.loewenherz.at

Canada:

Glad Day Bookshop

499 Church Street

Tornoto, ON, M4Y 2C6

www.gladdaybookshop.com

Germany:

Prinz Eisenherz Buchladen GmbH

Motzstr. 23

10777 Berlin

www.prinz-eisenherz.com

United States of America:

Capital Books

1011 K Street

Sacramento, CA 95814

www.capitalbooksonk.com

Books Inc – Campbell

Pruneyard Shopping Center

1875 S. Bascom Avenue #600

Campbell, CA 95008

www.booksinc.net

Did you know you can also find my books at the following on-line retailers?

  • Amazon

  • Barns and Noble

  • Walmart.com

  • iTunes

  • Kobo

  • Smashwords

Also, you can find my books at the following locations:

San Jose Public Library

www.sjpl.org

Billy DeFrank LGBTQ Community Center

938 The Alameda

San Jose, CA 95126

www.defrankcenter.org

Lavender Library

1414 21st Street

Sacramento, CA 95811

www.lavenderlibrary.com

Since we still can do any in person events check out my calendar of events that I’ll be doing virtually:

Check my calendar of events here.

Well this is all I have for you this week. Have you found my books in a local bookstore? Let me know. Better yet, take a picture of you with my book, post it and tag me, I would love to see where my books pop up. As always please remember to drop me a heart/like below letting me know you stopped by. It really does make all the difference and lets me know that connect you like so I can make more of it. Got a question feel free to ask it in the comments below and I’ll do my best to answer it. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Traveling During a Pandemic Observations and Tips

Happy Wednesday Scribblers I hope you are all staying safe and taking good care of yourselves. This week I want to talk a little about traveling during a pandemic and sharing what I learned. My hubby and I went on vacation for ten days.  Sounds crazy right. I know.  If I’m honest I was worried about traveling during this time, still we did it and I wanted to share my thoughts and my experience with you.

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We decided to go to DisneyWorld and spend ten days. We had been there in February and we’re familiar with the location so we were comfortable enough making the trip.

We weren’t worried about DisneyWorld in general because we have seen all the safety precautions they’ve taken in the parks, resorts, and restaurants, but the flight was another story.

We did our research and found that Delta Airline was keeping the middle seat empty and doing deep cleanings before each flight. We also noted that Delta had changed all the air filters on their planes to the ones that are supposed to get rid of all the nasty bugs and viruses. So, those safety precautions made us feel a better, why they haven’t been doing them all along is beyond me.

When it came to the actual travel some of the things we noted were how empty the airports were (both San Jose, Seattle and Orlando) air travel is nothing like what it was back before the pandemic.  I will say the airline and the airport did a good job with keeping places clean and ensuring people wore their masks. Unfortunately there were issues with social distancing, but that is the same thing you would experience at a grocery store or anywhere if we’re honest.

Boarding the planes was back to front (with the exception of First Class), which seemed to work well and kept people apart.  As each person got on the plane the flight crew handed them a sanitizing whip that they could use to clean the area around them. Also, facemasks were required and you could only take your mask off to drink or eat.  During the flight passengers were given a ziplock bag with a bottle of water, bag of crackers, sealed cookie, napkin, and a single use of handsanitzer. This was actually one of the better snacks/services we’ve received in economy in a long time, so the pandemic has really made the airlines step up their game…

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We had a single lay over in Seattle, which gave us time to get some real food and walk around.  Again, the airport was pretty empty. All the restaurants (that were open) had tables distanced from each other making us feel more comfortable. Again most (not all) people wore masks and practiced social distancing.

I wasn’t sure what to expect when we got to Florida, but it wasn’t like it had been in the past.  The airport was strange and surreal. I’m used to my trips to Florida to be filled with rushing families and people chatting, laughing and all of that. Yes, there was some of that, but not a lot. Everyone was focused on getting to where they needed to be.  We made our away to Disney Transportation and once there and checked in we were ushered to our bus with other travelers. We were distanced on the bus (which was filled back to front). At every step of the way we were reminded to keep our masks on and to keep our social distance.

The cast members did everything they could to make sure everyone was safe and having a good time (or as good a time as possible after traveling all day).

Because of the lack of guests, limited resorts, and social distancing our bus went to more resorts and took a bit longer to get us to where we were staying. We were staying at the Contemporary and the travel from the airport to resort took little over an hour. Our driver did some trivia questions, which was nice and the banter was very much appreciated.

Once at our resort we got a text with our room number (there was no need to go to the guest services desk).

Everywhere on property signs reminded guests to wear masks, keep your social distance and a new reminder that guest not wearing their masks would be asked to leave.

If you’ve ever been to DisneyWorld you will know that not only is it the most magical place on earth it’s also one of the busiest. Not now.  The resort was quiet and there weren’t a lot of people around.  The staff we saw were cleaning and wiping down everything, while chatting and waving.

A lot of waving these days.

Regarding our actual stay, the parks were clean and Cast Members were waving and greeting everyone. Some of the things I noticed in the parks were:

The Noise.  I’m used to a lot of noise at these resorts and parks, but they seemed quitter, there wasn’t as much chatter, which may have had to do with the attendance, the parks from what we found out were at 25% capacity.

What was Open: All four parks were open, however, inside each park a lot was closed. We found that stores, restaurants, and some attractions were closed.

The Wait Times: Most of the wait times were what you would expect. We were hoping they would be less, but most of the wait times were between 40 – 90 minutes.

FastPass: Nope not right now.

Mask Policy: Cast Members made sure that everyone wore their masks and there were signs everywhere saying that if you don’t wear a mask you’ll be asked to leave.

Masks: Masks are everywhere and honestly, its kind of fun to see all the masks people wore and finding out where they got them.

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Social Distancing: This is an area that even though most people tried, it amazed us at how hard it was for people to stand on their markers and to stay out of people’s personal bubbles. Cast Members did what they could and I applaud them for all their efforts, but this is an area that is hard to succeed in.

Yep, me with Mary Poppins… Love her.

Yep, me with Mary Poppins… Love her.

Rides and Attractions: Cast Members were on top of this. They were cleaning everything (even the drinking fountains) and ensuring that high touch points were whipped down and cleaned. At points you could even smell the cleaner through your masks.

Dinning: Every restaurant we went to had limited seating and had limited menus. The Cast Members again were amazing and ensured that we were well taken care of. Of course, the food was good, but offerings were limited. Most menus offered; beef, chicken, fish, vegan, and vegetarian. The limited offerings were disappointing, but understandable.

Here are my recommendations (general and specific) if and when you travel during the pandemic:

Have a Sense of Humor. I know these are difficult times. None of this is easy and everyone wants to keep safe (even those that may not act like it). Try to laugh and try to keep a sense of humor. It’s the only way we are going to get through this.

Have Multiple Masks. You will want to take several masks with you. I suggest one new mask a day, and if you sweat a lot then maybe bring extra, there is nothing worse than having stinky wet mask on your face.

Get to Places Early. It sucks, but get to the airport, the plane, the parks, the hotel, the restaurant, the wherever early. This will make your life so much easier…seriously it does.

Hand Sanitizer. Use it, bring your own, use the free staff all over the place. We touch a lot of surfaces without even knowing it, so keep using hand sanitizer.

Wash your Hands. You can never wash your hands too much right now. So, do it.  Some locations will have hand washing stations, use them.

Mobile Ordering. You really need to use this. It is something that will make your life a lot easier and most places require it.

Cash. Despite what you may hear to the contrary everywhere we went they accepted cash and made change. There was one location that only did cashless transactions.

Expect to Wait. No matter what you do, you are going to have to wait for something. Be prepared to wait, it’s part of life even when we aren’t in a pandemic.

Walking. You are going to do a lot of walking. I cannot emphasize this enough, you will be walking between 5 – 10 miles a day. So be prepared.  Bring good shoes. If you have little ones understand you are going to be carrying them at some point. If this doesn’t sound fun to you, then don’t go.

Transportation. Yes, Disney has all kinds of free transportation, however, it can be slow. So, you are going to be waiting. Same with the airports (slow and a lot of hurry up and wait).

Cost. Whatever you think you are going to spend…double it… no triple it… this has nothing to do with the cost of DisneyWorld it has to do with being human and wanting stuff. There will always be something shiny to catch your eye, there may be a sweet treat you can’t miss out. Be prepared to fork out the dollars.

Plan a ‘Resort’ Day (or Three). Okay, here is the thing. There is a lot to do and you are going to want to do it all, but the reality is you are only human and if you have little ones you are going to be exhausted. You need to take a day off and relax. It is Eric and I and for our trip we planned two resort days were we did nothing but relax and take it easy, this is more important than you can realize.

California Grill at sunset.

California Grill at sunset.

Dinning. Look there is no way around it. You need to make reservations as soon as you can for the restaurants you want to eat at.  You may get lucky and swing a walk-up, but don’t count on it. So, plan your eating accordingly. Especially if you want to do a nice dinner or something like that.  There is no room service and the food at the counter service locations is good, but limited. Plan ahead!

Free Water. Are you hot and thirsty? Most counter service places will offer free cups of water. Get them, they are a life savior.

First Time. Use a travel agent, find one that specializes in Disney Vacation. They will know all the ins and outs and they will know about special prices and dinning and all that. Find one, check their reviews, and use them.

Weather. Ugh.  Florida… Hot and humid. Plan for rain, hot, humid, etc.

Polynesian resort

Polynesian resort

Hotels. Limited services are now the norm, don’t expect daily housekeeping. You can still get towels and things like that, but no daily cleaning… so if you make a mess you are going to be stuck with it.

The Bubble. When you go to Disney or Universal you are going to be in a bubble and I suggest, if you are worried about anything, you stay in that bubble. We never left Disney property, that may not work for you and your family, and that is fine. However, the standards at one location (or park) may not be the same everywhere. The bubble can be your friend especially right now.

Don’t be an Ass.  You are hot, you are tired, you waited all day for Rise of the Resistance and you find out that your boarding pass isn’t going to happen. Be kind. Be nice. Laugh. Smile. Be flexible. Don’t be the family making a fuss and yelling at each other in front of other guests. We all see them. We all laugh at them. We all make fun of them. We don’t want to be them.

Lastly there are tons of YouTube Channels that focus on travel and provide tips and tricks for you, these folks all do their best to provide you with good information check them out.  Some of our favorites for DisneyWorld are: DFB (Disney Food Blog) click here, Michael Kay click here, WDW (although sometimes they can be a bit much) click here, and there are a bunch more so check them out.

Be prepared to get photos you may not get during ‘normal’ times.

Be prepared to get photos you may not get during ‘normal’ times.

That’s all I got for you. Overall, our trip was enjoyable, but different. We had fun. Disney and Delta have all done a great job making us not only feel safe but welcome. If you are worried about traveling during the pandemic, then I don’t suggest you travel, because you are reminded about the pandemic everywhere you go. I do think that all the safety precautions that have been taken have made it as safe as possible (as long as you stay in the bubble). If I’m honest I feel safer in the parks, at the resorts, and on the plane then I do at the grocery store or Target.

Want more insight into our travel. Here are some links to some of our other travel adventures (pre-pandemic):

Summer Vacation 2019 - click here

Why Authors Need to Travel - click here

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Interview with Valentine Wheeler

Happy Wednesday Scribblers. I hope you are all doing well. Can you believe we are already into Fall?  And it’s October. What a crazy year. This week I’m excited to bring you author Valentine Wheeler. Valentine is a Queer Romance, Fantasy and Science Fiction author who is published through NineStar Press. Also, Valentine is part of Wizards in Space Literary Magazine, which she will tell us more about. Let’s get to know Valentine.

Welcome Valentine, I’m so glad to have you here on my blog.  We have your bio below, so instead why don’t you tell us what’s not in the bio, by way of an introduction.

Hi M.D. ! Thrilled to stop by--you know I’m a big fan of yours!

Ah, that is kind of you to say. I’ve enjoyed getting to know you.

Something that’s not in my bio? Well, I’m a nationally-ranked archer, and I box when it’s not a pandemic! This may lead you to believe I am athletic, but that would be an incorrect assumption.

I also absolutely love systems. Mail, transit, logistics--they’re my jam. If anybody wants ideas for stuff to submit to any magazine or anthology where I’m on the editorial team, send me stories about bureaucracy and systems gone wrong… or working just as intended.

Now that we know a little more about you, why don’t you tell us what got you into writing? What did you see that was missing in the writing world that you knew you could fill?

Honestly, I was never a writer growing up; I got into writing for the community. When I was in my twenties, I got very involved in fandom, and as you may know, the currency of fandom is creative work. That’s how you show your love for the source material and your fellow creators. So, to really feel like a part of the community, I felt like I needed to contribute to the massive creative group storytelling efforts going on. I started writing fanfiction in 2013, and moved to original fiction in 2017. I love the groups of writers I work--and share work--with. It’s an incredible, collaborative community that works to push its members to be better with a lot of positive reinforcement.

After reviewing your website and chatting a bit with you most of your works centers around bi characters? Why do you think it’s important for there to be greater representation of Bi people in literature and in the media in general?

I can only write from my own bi experience, even when I’m writing characters of other orientations, so that’s a start! It’s hard for me to write about people whose attraction, whether sexual or romantic, is limited by gender. But beyond that, there’s not much good bi and pan representation in fiction (for some GOOD recs, though, I made a thread for #BiVisibilityDay here). We’re often left out of the history of the queer movement, despite having been there since the start. I know so many bi adults who had no idea there were other people like them out there, who thought there was something wrong with them, who believed the stereotypes that persist about bi folks. Queer rep is good. Diverse queer rep--gender, race, orientation, class, age, ability--is even better. We all deserve to see ourselves in the media we consume.

Let’s chat about your upcoming book. What can you tell us about the story? What are we going to see in these characters? What’s going to make this novel stand out over all the other books out there?

I’m really excited to share Give Way with readers, because this is a book I didn’t mean to write. Seriously, I didn’t.

I wrote my first novel, No Parking, in 2018. It’s a story of two older bi women fighting a corrupt city official and falling in love accidentally. It’s soft and cozy and it’s about finding home and all the delicious food they eat along the way.

Marianne, the main character, is divorced, and she and her ex-husband Kevin have a pretty good relationship. He helps her out with her legal troubles, and they’re slowly navigating their way back to the friendship they’d shared before becoming involved forty years earlier. At one point in the novel, Kevin meets a man, and realizes he’s always been bisexual and hasn’t let himself admit it to himself. It’s a very small side-plot in No Parking, but it was one that apparently intrigued readers, because they wanted to know more about Kevin and his life and his story! So Give Way was born: the story of Kevin’s queer awakening and a surprise mail carrier uniform fixation.

Give Way is a novella about finding love and how it’s never too late to figure out who you are.

What can you tell us about the protagonist?

Kevin is a grumpy Massachusetts retired lawyer who isn’t really sure what to do with himself now that he’s got free time. His kids all have their own lives, his ex has her own problems, and now that he’s single, it’s awkward going out with all the old partnered friends he made back when he was married. He’s smart and he likes to leap before he looks and he’s never thought too deeply about his own inner life--mostly out of self-preservation. You know that old myth about sharks dying if they stop swimming? Yeah. That’s Kevin.

What can you tell us about the antagonist?

Well, the antagonist in this story is Kevin’s anxiety about his own sexuality and his age, and Awais--the love interest--has some internalized biphobia he has to work through. Really, the antagonist is “feelings.”

Tell us, what is it about writing that you love?

I love building worlds and figuring out how everybody in them fits together, and I love writing alongside friends; when it’s not a pandemic, I host a monthly writing meetup at a Panera near me, and I have a critique group I’ve been sharing work with for years. I love watching my friends’ writing improve and grow and change and I love watching them publish and succeed.

When you’re not working your full-time job, you also are the Fiction Editor and Logistics Manager for Wizards in Space Literary Magazine? Tell us about Wizards in Space.

Sure! We’re a literary magazine focused on uplifting new and marginalized creators--most of our published creators are queer, and nearly half are trans, and we’ve published work from over a dozen countries, ranging in age from 15 to 80. We began in fandom, making a space for folks to publish their original, non-fanfic work, and grew from there. We publish a print book twice a year that features 20-30 creators (who we pay! Money!) all pulled from our anonymous submissions. We also host open mics at conventions and lately online.

We’re really proud of our work, and think our books are absolutely gorgeous, both in content and design. Poetry, fiction, prose, art: we fill the book with things that move us and try to build a story through the issue. Check out some of the work here we’ve featured on our blog, and read what Wizards in Space means to our community.

Submissions close on October 15th (learn more here) We would love to see submissions from all your readers.

How did you get involved with Wizards in Space Literary Magazine?

My good friend Olivia Dolphin created Wizards in Space in 2016, and asked me to get involved because I had experience with editorial work, and am an expert in mailing things and spreadsheets. I joined the editorial team in 2017 for our third issue.

Where would you like to see Wizards in Space go in five years? What can people see coming from Wizards in Space Literary Magazine in the future?

Our sixth issue will be coming out around New Year’s, and we hope to keep growing from there! I have dreams of us publishing novellas in the future, and hosting more events across the world where people can present their work. We love collaborating with other organizations to help them build their audiences and reach new creators.

What can we see coming out from you next?

I’ve got two more stories in the No Parking universe in the works! The next installment will feature a nonbinary protagonist and their ex-girlfriend, the former prom queen to their homecoming king, ten years after graduation. I’m excited for it! I wish somebody would hurry up and finish writing it.

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Thank you so much for stopping by today, Valentine. It was great having you. Do you have questions for Valentine? Leave them below and I’ll be sure to have her swing by and answer them.

Want to learn about some other great NineStar Press authors? Check out my interviews with these folks:

Interview with Author B. Rourke click here.

Interview with Author Glenn Quigley click here.

Interview with Author Riina Y.T. click here.

Interview with author J. P. Jackson click here.

That brings us to the end of our interview for this week. Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and Valentine, please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

About Valentine Wheeler’s Latest Work:

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No Parking, Ninestar Press, 2020

When Marianne Windmere’s bakery customers begin complaining that her parking lot is always full, she assumes it must be customers for the new restaurant next door. She’s never met her neighbor, and with the parking lot situation, she has no interest in doing so. But when a snowstorm knocks out the power and traps both women in the building overnight, sparks fly—until the next morning, when the buried argument comes to a head.

Can they find a way to reclaim the magic of that night? And as decades-old secrets about the history of the town and Marianne’s family come to light, can they work together to save both their businesses?

Buy it here at NineStar Press

Buy it here on Amazon.


Give Way, Ninestar Press, 2021

Kevin McNamara’s post-retirement life is… fine. He has friends, a few consulting gigs, and an ex-wife he’s finally on good terms with. But when he meets an intriguing stranger–a rarity in close-knit Swanley–he can’t stop thinking about the hot mailman or the unexpected attraction that knocked him flat.

Awais Siddiqui never thought he’d want to come back to his childhood hometown, but when his grandmother falls ill, he’s the only one who can help his aunt keep an eye on her. Awais figures he’ll be back in the city soon enough–but then a silver fox on his route catches his eye.

Can Awais deliver the spark Kevin’s been missing?

 

About Valentine Wheeler:

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Valentine Wheeler (she/her) lives outside Boston with her spouse and child and spends her days chasing mail carriers and citing obscure postal regulations.

Find her on twitter or goodreads, and her work at Ninestar Press and the Future Fire. She also serves as Fiction Editor and Logistics Manager for Wizards in Space Literary Magazine (check them out here) and slushreads for various genre publications.

Her life’s ambition is to eat the food of every country.

 

Where to Find Valentine Wheeler:

Click here to find her on Twitter.

Find her on Goodreads here.

Check all her works over at NineStar Press here.

About Wizards in Space:

Through our printed magazine, live events, and workshops, the mission of Wizards in Space Literary Magazine is to create safe and inclusive publishing spaces for people like you. Whether a reader or a writer, we’re looking out for you. That’s why we pay all creators that are published in the book or work on staff. Exposure is not payment.

While always rooted in our love for pop culture and fandom, we’re also exploring literary spaces and what it means to showcase writers’ best work and authentic experiences.

That’s where the name comes from. Wizards in Space: Spaces made for people to share their magic.

Find out more at wizardsinspacemag.com.

Top Ten Vloggers I Follow

Happy Wednesday Scribblers. Another week has flow by. Given all that is going on, I thought I would do something fun and share with you the vloggers I watch and enjoy.  These are shared in no particular order.

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Slapped Ham: All things creepy and scary. New list videos every Tuesday, Thursday and Saturday. We make creepy and scary videos. On our channel you’ll find unexplained videos, scary photos, paranormal mysteries, monsters, cryptids, time travelers and ghost photos. Click here to check it out.

TrekCulture: Boldly going where no WhatCulture channel has gone before... Check them out here.

Certifiably Ingame: A nerd found a microphone and roped his friend into starting a YouTube Channel. We're a small channel with a love of all things Science Fiction, but always looking to grow and expand our content. You'll find here Top 10's, Lore, and opinions. Gaming provides more of the same with the occasional playthrough and general capers! We always encourage discussion so stay a while and maybe you'll find something to enjoy! Star Trek, Doctor Who and Mass Effect will always have a home here, but if you've got something specific, send us a request! Click here to learn more.

BrickVault: Brick Vault is dedicated to bringing you the best in Lego set unboxing, building and reviews. Created by a group of passionate Lego enthusiasts Brick Vault hopes to inspire and share our passion for Lego with the world. Find them here.

Tall Tale TV: I narrate Sci-Fi and Fantasy short stories by aspiring authors. Free audio books to help you discover new authors twice a week! Regular posts are Monday and Friday. Learn more about them here.

Afterlife: What would a professional barber for the military, and a classically trained opera singer/aspiring novelist have to say about queer life after the clubbing years? Ya know, when you turn 30 (gasp!) and suddenly everyone thinks you're dead? Yeah, well we're still here! And we have MANY stories to talk about. Queer life before the internet, before cell phones, before social media of any kind. You'd be surprised just how resourceful a young queer kid can be when all of those cool modern tools are taken away and you gotta figure crap out for yourself. We do all of this with an irreverent, though clearly queer slant, eye and full of humor while we discuss what it means to be an "older cat in the gayborhood" in this post 2020 era. Join us for the chat and maybe pick up a few fun stories and some irreverent comedy along the way! Check them out here.

Pressure Luck Cooking: You've come to a page to learn some awesome, delicious, and QUICK recipes for your Instant Pot, Ninja Foodi and pressure-cooking needs...and have some fun doing it! As I'm not a professional chef, I don't do fancy ingredients here - just the simple, everyday stuff that's easy to find! Check him out here.

FoodWishes: Hello this is Chef John, and welcome to the Food Wishes channel, where the food is the star. Watch these fun-to-make, and easy-to-follow recipes, and you'll improve your culinary skills dramatically!

I post new videos on Tuesdays and Fridays (usually), so keep checking back! Even better, join the community of astonishingly amazing people who subscribe to my channel, so you don’t miss a thing. Find him here.

Preppy Kitchen: Hi, I’m John, Creator of Preppy Kitchen! I’m a husband, dad to twins Lachlan and George, Los Angeles native, and an avid baker and cooker of all things delicious thanks to a lifelong education from my mother. My mom cooked every meal we had and I loved spending time with her in the kitchen watching, helping, and learning as she made everything from scratch. Click here for more.

WhatCulture Horror: Part of the WhatCulture Group out of the UK. They focus on the horror movie genre. Learn more here.

Want more, here are some of my other Top Ten lists as well as some Top Ten lists from some great guest bloggers:

The 10 Best Covers of 2020 (So Far) by Thao Nguyen Click here

Podcasts and More Click here

My Favorite Sci-Fi Properties by Matt Doyle Click here

Top Ten List with Jacqueline Church Simonds Click here

Book Recommendations Click here

That’s all for this week. I’m planning on doing another one of these in the future, this list doesn’t even scratch the surface of what we watch. Now it’s your turn, what are some of your favorite Vloggers and YouTube Channels that you follow? Leave them in the comments below so I can check them out. Lastly, please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Wayne Goodman-All the Right Places

Happy Wednesday Scribblers. I hope you are all staying safe with all the craziness that is going on. I can’t believe another week has flashed by. Today, I’m honored to have Author, Pianist, Actor, Singer, Composer, Director, and Podcast Host Wayne Goodman with us. I’ve had the pleasure of getting to know Wayne over the last several months and I finally got him here to share his newest work All the Right Places and to share more of his personal story with us. Sit back and enjoy.

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How many times have you submitted a short story to a submission call only to have the editor tell you the work isn’t a good fit? Most of us have received many rejection notices, some kinder than others, some even laudatory. Still, we’ve all been rejected at some point during our writing careers.

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My name is Wayne Goodman. I live in the San Francisco Bay Area with my partner Rick May (and too many cats). My writing has tended to be historical fiction with a focus on LGBTQ+ characters. When not writing, I like to play piano music from the Gilded Age with an emphasis on Women, Black, and Gay composers.

From time-to-time I submitted short stories to anthologies or collections. Some got accepted and printed, many received polite rejections. After a few years my compilation of shorter works grew to a point where I wanted to publish them together. “All the Right Places” contains eleven pieces that take place starting in the near future and chronologically progressing to the near past.

Two of the stories (“Rumpspringa” and “Looking for Love in All the Right Places”) had been submitted to a journal looking for stories where a sense of “Place” drove the action. The journal never moved forward on that project, but I ended up with two good pieces.

One piece of public art that has fascinated me sits at London’s Piccadilly Circus. Atop a circular pedestal, the statue of Anteros (usually mislabeled Eros) has acquired a mystique for bringing potential lovers together. I find it so compelling that two of the stories begin and end there (the title story and “Nice Day for a Picnic”).

Population Maintenance,” my first accepted work, went to Off the Rocks. Their call for submission asked to redefine “Gay,” and that’s what I gave them. “Noah’s Raft” got printed in the subsequent edition focusing on historical romances. The story involved quite a bit of local history for the area where I live and started out as a submission to the Best Gay Erotica series. The editor thought it too tame, but it ended up finding a home anyway.

And speaking of Best Gay Erotica, my partner frequently had his stories printed there. My piece, “Out of Yoshiwara,” made it into the final edition of the collection, along with one of Rick’s. We were the first couple to have stories in the same edition.

Ideas for stories sometimes come from unusual places. I am a member of KQED in San Francisco, and they produce a program called “Bay Curious” that responds to listeners’ questions about local points of interest. One such show dealt with Mile Rock Lighthouse, which sits one mile off the rocky coast. That led to “Stag Station,” the designation given to a lighthouse where women are not permitted.

Sunday/Sinday” came from a quick glimpse at a television commercial for some event happening on a Sunday. However, either I saw it wrong or the text on the screen actually read, “SNDY,” and my mind filled in two sets of vowels.

Queering history has always fascinated me. I like to take little-known or nearly-forgotten times and reintroduce them with queer characters. A few years back I retold three historically-significant books: the first Russian-language book featuring a gay character (Mikhail Kuzmin’s “Wings”), the first American gay novel (Bayard Taylor’s “Joseph and his Friend: A Pennsylvania Story”), and the first English-language gay novel (Francis Lathom’s “Live and Learn”). The challenge for me was to revive these important works but for 21st Century readers. Much of the original language regarding same-sex couples relied on subtext, ambiguities, or inferences to get their meaning across. My works put the queerness right up front where you cannot miss it.

Since October 2018, I have hosted Queer Words Podcast, conversations with queer-identified authors about their works and lives (www.queerwords.org). Each week I release at least one 20-30 minute episode featuring writers from the barely-known to the well-known. We talk about their queer experiences as well as their literary works. If you are a published, queer-identified author and would like to be featured in a future episode, you can email here.

According to David Pratt of Hosta Press in his Goodreads review: “Wayne Goodman writes with a welcome frankness and gives us some wonderfully sexy set-ups … Goodman reminds us that men had desires and knew what they wanted even in the old west of the U.S. or nineteenth century London. A very frank and refreshing change-up from the warm and delightful host of the Queer Words podcast.”

I hope you enjoy the stories in “All the Right Places” as much as I enjoyed writing them. Bon Voyage!

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Want to meet some other amazing authors who I think you need to check out? Here are some that I think you’ll really love:

Interview with R.L. (Ro) Merrill Check it out here.

Interview with Barbara Russell Check it out here.

Interview with Author Mike Lopez Check it out here.

Book Announcement and Interview for J.S. Strange Check it out here.

That’s all for this week Scribblers, please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support artist like Wayne Goodman and myself please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. It really does help. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Where to Find Wayne Goodman and his Works:

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Find his website here.

Find his books here:

Find him on Twitter here.

Find him on Instagram here.

Find him on Facebook here.

Book Editing; Overly Used Words, Filtering and Filler Words

Hello Scribblers. Another week has flow by. As several of you have probably noted, over the last several weeks I’ve been buried in the editing process.  In fact, I just finished and sent off the first round (or pre-edits) to my upcoming novel the sequel to my duology of The Calling, titled The Called. The book should be coming out March 2021.

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This particular around of editing has been long and arduous, not because it’s hard, but because this round of editing involves getting rid of overly used words, filtering words, filler words, etc. And I want to know what you think? What are you looking for in a properly edited book? Do you even care? Let me explain what these all mean and you can tell me your thoughts.

Now what are these Overly Used Words I mentioned? Some of them are:

Really

Actually

Very

Just

Shrug

Because

There are more of course (a lot more) basically overly used words are common words everyone uses all the time. So, when we write we tend to use them too much and have to go back into our works and remove them. Authors have to figure out ways to rework sentences to either eliminate or replace these words and phrases. Sometimes the change makes sense, other times the change doesn’t. Still the process takes times. One chapter can take several hours to edit. The outcome of these edits can make the story much better.

There are times when word choice is made for dialect reasons or to remind readers you are in a certain character’s point of view and the author is showing you their mind set.

Think about the words or phases you use all the time. For me I use “just” and “really” all the time, even when I’m thinking. If suddenly, those words were gone would I still sound like me?

Recrafting chapters and sentence structure to address specific words can be a slippery slope and needs to always be done with caution and for good reason.

Overused words aren’t the only item that needs to be addressed during editing. Filtering Words or Phases is something that all authors are asked to address in their writing. Filtering words include:

Saw

Heard

Thought

Could

Watched

And many more. These words, like the overused words, can slip up readers, or separate the reader from the story. Instead of saying; “Marc heard a loud bang off to his left.” The sentence may read better as; “Marc startled at the crash off to his left as his stomach flipped and his palms became damp.” With this change you have a greater sense of what Marc is feeling you are more in his point of view and the phasing is much richer and interesting.

Making these adjustments to one’s story tends to help the stories flow, however like with all editing, making these changes takes times and can dramatically change the story the author is looking to share with the world. In some cases, despite these changes making the story more richly worded, they can also increase the word count making the story longer than it may need to be.

Filler Words such as: was, that, and it always need to be addressed and edited out whenever and wherever possible. These changes will allow for a more descriptive story.

One of the big writing no-no’s is adverbs, basically anything ending with ‘ly’ nothing will spin an Editors head faster than an adverb, luckily for this round of ending I didn’t have anything that got dinged.  However, there are still a few more rounds of editing to go.

So, when you are reading a book and you stop because you are hung up by some crazy turn of phase and wonder why the author didn’t write. “Said” instead of this long description about how the character reacted, you can rest assured that at some point the author did write ‘said’ but was asked to reconsider the words use and create something that offers the reader more description and detail. Or, to be fair, the author may have changed in on their own…we do that too.

Now that I explained these editing/writing ‘rules’ with you. What do you think? Do you care? Well, why you should care is because, as I said at the start of this blog post, this round of editing took me close to four weeks. This is the first round; their will be at least two more rounds of editing. Which leads me to the point that books take time to write and time to be properly edited, so keep that in mind when you wonder why a good author only publishes one or two books a year.

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Want to learn more about the writing process? Interested in finding out more about the writing journey check out these posts:

Mother of Words – By Claire Buss Check it out here.

On Reading – by Joyce Hertzoff Check it out here.

Why I Write and How the Stories Come to me? Check it out here.

What are your thoughts on all this? What do you think about the editing process? Would you rather an author pump out a new book every month, to hell with the quality of the writing? Or, do you want to read a novel that is accurately edited and know that every effort to make the story its best possible self has been made? I would love to hear what you all think. Do filter words bother you when you read? What about overused words, do you notice them? What are your thoughts on adverbs? Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Interview with Kim Founder of PocketPridePlus

Today Scribblers I’m thrilled to have someone I’ve been fond of for quite some time, and have only recently gotten to know more personally. Kim Crawford (aka Mama Kim). Kim is the founder of PocketPridePlus and a Contributor for the amazing Podcast GayTalk 2.0 run by Tom and his co-Hosts Nick and Chris (learn more about GayTalk 2.0 here). Without further ado let’s get to know the amazing Mama Kim.

Welcome Kim, I always ask my guests to share something not in their bio, which we have at the bottom of this interview. So, tell us something new, by way of an introduction.

My youngest son is gay which has led me to where I am today. I have always been a supporter of the LGBTQ+ community, but his coming out took my support to a whole new level.

As a mother of a gay son, why do you think it’s so important for young people to have the love and support of their families? Not everyone is as accepting as you and your husband. If you don’t mind, can you share with us that part of your story?

I have never understood why children who are a part of the LGBTQ+ community are so maligned.  How can a parent have a child, love and support them, and then shut it off like a switch when the child comes out? These children especially need their parent’s acceptance, love and support since society does not always do that.  When our son came out to us, we felt honored that he trusted us to accept him as himself, and he didn’t need to keep it a secret. I honestly feel that we are the lucky ones, having one of our children who is a part of the LGBTQ+ community.  Not all parents are given this gift, and it is one that should be cherished.

From what I understand you started PocketPridePlus after your involvement with GayTalk 2.0 (click here for more info about the show) which you have a weekly segment on (Mama Kim’s Minute). How did all this come to be? How did you find GayTalk 2.0? Why did you get involved with them? And how did that lead to PocketPridePlus?

When my son came out, I immediately decided that I wanted to educate myself more about the LGBTQ+ community, and that is where I found, GayTalk 2.0.

I was hooked from the start, and although usually a pretty shy introvert, followed their request at the end of each show, and wrote a review.  Well, imagine my shock when the next week, they read it on air!  That is what started my weekly emails to the show, and then nearly daily emails about various articles I found.  Eventually that led them to decide to give me a weekly segment, Mama Kim’s Minute.  This podcast has taught me so much since I have been listening.  I learned about major things like, Stonewall, Conversion Therapy, and organizations such as, The Trevor Project (learn more here).  Each week, I learn something, and have added many books and music, to my library from individuals they have interviewed or discussed on the show.  The more I learned, the more I wanted to do for the community to let them know that I was there and supported them.  I made each of the guys on the show a quilted Pride wall hanging about six months after I started listening to the show.  That wall hanging is what led me to come up with the idea of, PocketPridePlus.  I wanted to do for others what I did for the guys on the show, but on a smaller, more affordable and easier to produce scale.

I have to ask, what does your son think of all this?

He is more reserved than I am, and perhaps sometimes wishes that I wasn’t quite so vocal!  He is happy for me and supportive in all that I am doing with my great passion for the community.  He did participate as did my husband in my GayTalk interview which is on episode 169 (find it here).  That interview, can give you all an even better insight into their, insights in their own words.

Something that you said in your bio really caught my attention, “That way, anytime someone reaches for their keys, they will feel proud of who they are, and be reminded that someone cares.” This quote is in reference to the key chains you make. Can you tell us why you said this? What is the thought behind the message?

I started quilting when my first son was born in the early nineties. I wanted to be able to have him wrap himself up in it, and feel like I was giving him a hug even when I wasn’t there.  Since then, over the years, I have made both of my boys, family, nieces, nephews, grandkids, etc. many quilts.   I love being able to give just a little bit of myself to others that they can hold on to and know that they are loved.  Unfortunately, with quilts, they are quite time consuming and expensive to make.  When I came up with the PocketPridePlus idea, I knew that mass producing quilts would be impractical, and that is when I came up with the idea of Pride keychains.  They would not take unduly long to make, they were useful, and affordable.  Best of all in making them, I can spread that, Mama Kim love and support to so many others.  Additionally, I committed to donating a portion of what I make form any sales to The Trevor Project.  I didn’t want to make money solely for myself.  I would not be where I am today if it were not for the LGBTQ+ community, and I wanted to give back to them.  I decided on the Trevor Project because they do so much for youth in the LGBTQ+ community who are rejected by others, even their own families and they have nowhere else to turn.

When you’re not working on PocketPridePlus and quilting, and finding articles for GayTalk 2.0 what else do you do? What do you do for your own selfcare?

I enjoy spending time with my family, reading, watching Netflix, and walking or hiking with my corgi girl, Olive.

Other than your amazing pride key chains what else do you make and have on offer?

I also make Pride Coasters, Eyeglass Cases, Cell Phone Pouches, Masks which are normal style, and also masks with a brass straw hole which have a closable flap to cover it when not in use.

When it comes to PocketPridePlus what’s coming out next? Where do you see your shop going?

I am working on increasing my product line.  I would love to see PocketPridePlus making, seasonal holiday decorations, custom quilts, including baby quilts, wall hangings, and even wedding favors, all Pride related.  Another product I would also like to add are felted animals, Pride themed or not.  I will also be bringing some of my products to local Pride celebrations hopefully starting next year. The possibilities are endless as to what I would like to offer in my shop.  At this time I am building a website, and hope to have it up very soon.

Lastly, any final thoughts you want to share with everyone?

I would first of all like to thank you, M.D. Neu for giving me this space to tell my story. I also want to thank all of you readers who have taken the time to read my story.  I have so much enjoyed where this journey has taken me, all the friends I have made, and things I have learned.  I love thinking that I am making a difference in any way that I can, and look forward to where I will go from here.  I wish all of you the best, and Happy Pride all year long!

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What an amazing woman. An inspiration for so many. Thank you, Kim, for taking the time to speak with us today. And I’m so thrilled to have gotten to know you better. I can’t wait to see what is coming up next for you and PocketPridePlus.

Looking to learn about another group of amazing people, check out my video interview with the gang over at The Afterlife. Find the interview here.

That’s all for this week Scribblers, check out PocketPridePlus, order a key chain, a lanyard, or a coaster or two. Also, don’t forget to check out her Etsy shop and website. Please follow PocketPridePlus on Instagram. Also, remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support PocketPridePlus and/or my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

About Kim Crawford:

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Kim Crawford, AKA Mama Kim works at a hardware store by day, and runs my business by night. At home, I devote most of that time to my, family, PocketPridePlus business, and searching for stories to educate myself, and send to GayTalk2.0, and reading.  I feel like I always need to be keeping busy with something.

I guess you could say that I was a navy “brat.” I was born in Pennsylvania, and am the youngest of three children.  We moved around a lot of course, and settled in California in the seventies but, I will always be an east coast girl at heart.

I have been married for 35 years, have two amazing sons, as well as two beautiful grandchildren. I live in the central coast of California with my husband and darling corgi named, Olive.


Where to Find PocketPridePlus:

Find her website here.

Find her on Etsy here.

Find her on Instagram here.

Interview with B. Rourke

It’s another Wednesday and that means it’s time for another author interview. This week I happy to present author B. Rourke. B. Rourke grew up on the prairies of Alberta, Canada and knew she was always meant to tell stories. So let’s get to know this wonderful new romance author.

Welcome B. Rourke, I always ask my guests to share something not in your bio, which we have at the bottom of this interview. So, tell us something us what’s not in the bio, by way of an introduction.

There is so much I could say here! How about this?

Once upon a time, I was a hockey writer. My friends and I ran a rather successful and utterly polarizing blog about the Boston Bruins. When blogging endless game previews, recaps and analysis articles became too much for us to handle, we opted to go the podcast route and were lucky enough to be able to tape a demo for the Bruins organization in which they gave us access to their players and staff. It didn’t go anywhere from the demo, obviously, but being part of it was one of the coolest things I’ve ever done.

As a new writer, what excites most about the writing process? What are you most worried about?

The part I love the most is creating characters that people can connect with. I want people to feel about what I write, even if what they feel is hate. Feelings and emotions are the keys for me in all of this.

The piece of crafting novels that has worried me is whether or not to pull back on the details of what I write, particularly in the What He Need series. I’m very aware that my view of what makes a novel dark and uncomfortable has been skewed by the work I do in my full time job and have used friends who don’t work in mental health as touchpoints to help me answer the question of how much is too much. Still, it’s a worry that lingers in my mind as I write but I think it serves to make me more mindful of what drives the plot and what is gratuitous and unnecessary. Rhett's story is hard to read but without that reflection and worry, I don’t think it would have ended up where it has.

You’ve offered up, as your debut novel, a contemporary romance. What draws you to this genre? What do you think will make your novel and your characters stand out?

I love a good love story! I adore that moment where someone looks at someone else and thinks “Yes. I like this person. This is my person.” I adore it even more if that love is a struggle yet perseveres because that, to me, is real. Despite the fact that my book is riddled with angst from cover to cover, I really do love the tender moments between people. Things like the carding of fingers through locks of hair, the cupping of cheeks in strong hands and the soft kisses to foreheads are all reasons why I write romance. Yes, I write sex scenes and that’s always super fun, but what does it for me in the genre is the little things that show love and acceptance.

I think the fact that I’m not afraid to go dark places is kind of what makes my writing stand out. Sometimes things just aren’t pretty and they really don’t have to be. Life is messy and so are people sometimes. I also think that my experiences with mental health, both professional and personal, have helped me craft a realistic story based on what I know. The only caveat to this is that my book is based in Alberta where the mental health care system is utterly broken, something the readers briefly see at the end of To Be Alive whether they recognize it or not, and that brokenness is what will drive some of the crucial events in the second book of the series.

The thing that caught my attention in your bio was that you said, “that you have a soft spot for outspoken misfits, weirdos who crack inappropriately hilarious jokes, and loners who enjoy silence above all else, and you firmly believe that everyone deserves their happily ever after.” Without spoilers, what kind of character flaws are we going to see in, To Be Alive? Clearly I think it’s safe to say that this novel will have some kind of ‘happily ever after’ or are you misleading us?

Oh, there are a lot of flawed characters in To Be Alive! Rhett, the main character, is a hot mess of OCD that manifests physically in disordered eating patterns, Trav is, on the surface, a ball of anxiety shaped like a boy and Hunter is just the saddest little haunted soul. These characters are all products of their environments and their environments have had some harsh repercussions on the way they think and how they learned as they were growing up. They’re very indicative of what I’ve experienced working in the mental health field. Some of my favorite people in my world are the most flawed, the most challenging and the most broken.

This novel has a happily ever after, but it’s definitely a process for the characters to get there. Colt falls for Rhett quickly but their story isn’t all sunshine and rainbows and love the whole way through. There’s definitely struggle and sadness and thunderclouds.

What have you enjoyed the most about the writing process and sharing your stories so far?

Can I be selfish as heck and say that the best part so far has been seeing my name on an actual book that I actually wrote and people are actually reading it? That’s probably the coolest thing ever. Hearing from readers that my book impacted them emotionally has been very rewarding because as stated, that’s my whole goal in writing.

Aside from that my writing process is kind of like a disaster. I can go for days without writing a single word, then have one day where I plunk down 5000 words and up. Consistency in writing habits is not my strong suit!

When you’re not writing what do you enjoy doing? Where can people find you when you’re not behind the computer crafting stories to be consumed?

Outside of writing and my full time job, I can usually be found curled up on the couch with a good book, a cup of coffee and a cat in my lap. I live for music and if my Spotify playlist isn’t blaring through the house that either means I’m sleeping or I’ve died. I like spending time with my family and love dragging my partner to musical theatre shows because he hates them and that he goes with me because I like them warms my little heart.

What was it like growing up on the prairies of Alberta?

Oh, Alberta. Land of cows, hockey and oil! I love it as much as I hate it.

I've always had a bit of a rebellious streak and I think growing up in a small rural town definitely amplified that. It's harder to fit in when you’re the goth kid weirdo in a small conservative town but I was lucky enough to have a decent group of friends to spend time with. We had much more freedom than kids get these days as well. We used to camp out overnight on weekends in one friend's trailer in her backyard and every night we'd leave the camper at around 2am and explore the coulees that ran behind her house before meandering around the town until the sun came up. We didn’t have much fear because everyone knew everyone else for the most part.

I think part of what’s shaped my writing is growing up in a small town. I’ve experienced bullying from people I’ve known since birth and I’ve seen how a small town can sometimes become its own little world unto itself. Deer Lake, the fictional city the What He Needs series is set in, is loosely based on where I grew up.

What can we see coming out from you next?

I have a few things in progress at the moment. Currently, I’m working on the first draft of the second book in my What He Needs series. The focus for this book is Travis but Rhett’s story will also continue in the background.

I’m also really stoked about another book I’m working on. I haven’t decided if it will be a standalone or the start of a new series and I don’t want to give away too many details but I will say that it’s sort of a rock star romance. Kind of. In a way. I suppose.

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It was great getting to know fellow author B. Rourke. I can’t wait to see what she has coming for us in the future. Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

 

About To be Alive:

At twenty-two years old, Rhett Hawkins lives a life full of secrets and lies. Nobody knows the truth about his childhood growing up in an abusive home, the eating disorder that threatens to take his life, the obsessive thoughts about death that play like a movie in the back of his mind, and the sexuality he hides.

Nobody until he meets Colt, that is.

Police Constable Colt Williams is the only person who ever took the time to look past the lies and see Rhett for who he really is: a damaged, beautiful young man desperate for love and acceptance. When Colt steps in and tries to get him help, Rhett makes a choice that takes him further away from life than he’s ever been before.

With his world turned upside down and his secrets laid bare for all to see, Rhett realizes it’s only by facing death that he can learn what it truly means to be alive.

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About B. Rourke:

Born and raised in the wild prairies of Alberta, Canada, B. Rourke grew up knowing she was meant to tell stories. It wasn’t until much later that she realized those stories were meant to star beautifully flawed men learning who they are, overcoming obstacles, and falling truly, madly and deeply in love. B has a soft spot for outspoken misfits, weirdos who crack inappropriately hilarious jokes, and loners who enjoy silence above all else, and firmly believes that everyone deserves their happily ever after.

 

Where to Find B. Rourke:

Find her website here.

Find her books at NineStar Press here or Everywhere else here.

Find her on Twitter here.

Find her on Instagram here.

Find her on Facebook here.

The Afterlife with Baz and Tuffy

Happy Wednesday Scribblers. Today we are trying something new. I’m hosting some amazing YouTube content creators on my blog; Tuffy Stanley and SA ‘Baz’ Collins host a show called the Afterlife. It is all about being gay and over the age of thirty. Afterlife is a blast and is always good for a laugh. Watching Baz and Tuffy interact akin to watching a brother and sister share their stories of growing up.

Instead of reading out the interview and answering the questions, they created an exclusive episode for me and you to enjoy.

I hope you enjoyed the video. That is all I have for you this week Scribblers. What did you think? Don’t forget to find Tuffy and Baz’s show by clicking here. Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

About the Afterlife:

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What would a professional barber for the military, and a classically trained opera singer/aspiring novelist have to say about queer life after the clubbing years? Ya know, when you turn 30 (gasp!) and suddenly everyone thinks you're dead? Yeah, well we're still here! And we have MANY stories to talk about. Queer life before the internet, before cell phones, before social media of any kind. You'd be surprised just how resourceful a young queer kid can be when all of those cool modern tools are taken away and you gotta figure crap out for yourself. We do all of this with an irreverent, though clearly queer slant, eye and full of humor while we discuss what it means to be an "older cat in the gayborhood" in this post 2020 era. Join us for the chat and maybe pick up a few fun stories and some irreverent comedy along the way!

Where to Find The Afterlife:

Find the YouTube Channel here.

Conscience by Jonathan Pongratz

Happy Wednesday Scribblers. Have I got a treat for you. This week I was given an Advance Readers Copy (ARC) of Conscience by Jonathan Pongratz.  He is an amazing author so I was thrilled to get the copy and read it. Here are my thoughts on the short story:

This is a wonderful SciFi/Dystopian short story that has excellent character development and a lush world that you want to explore more of. What is creepy about this story is how you can see where, if we are not careful, this world could come to be. In fact, I’m sure there are people out there who would argue that we are already there. You can’t help but cheer on and care for the main character.  This is an outstanding attribute of the author Jonathan Pongratz, he can suck you in with his incredible characters within the first few paragraphs of his story, which is needed for a short story.

I could see this short story easily adapted to Netflix or Hulu as a series.

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My short review with no spoilers. You need to buy this short story (released August 27, 2020) and give it a read. Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. Do you have question for Jonathan? Leave it below. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Everything you need to know about Conscience:

Title: Conscience

Release Date: 8/27/2020

Genre: Scifi/Dystopian/Short Story

Blurb:

Rory Bennels lives in a world ruled by a business entity known as the Corporation. For years he’s executed cerebral uploads for the recently deceased, but when the famed anarchist Epher Lore ends up in his lab, a series of events occur that shakes Rory’s world to the core.

Excerpt:

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“We’re losing him,” the surgeon’s tense voice cut through the viewing room’s speaker.

Rory Bennels leaned against the glass to the operating room as the surgeon barked orders at the nurses and red plated medbots tending to the man splayed out on the surgery table. The patient's body seized in violent tremors, blood oozing through wounds in his forehead, chest, and abdomen. Rory stared on in concern, his skin tingling as he recognized the man.

Epher Lore, the last leader of the Free Thinkers movement.

From his digital news updates, Rory knew of the Corporation's efforts to track down this anarchist. However, as he looked upon Epher’s broken body, curiosity sparked in his mind.

This man, dangerous? He couldn’t have been older than twenty-five. What was it about him that made the Corporation nervous?

A sharp zap at the base of his neck made Rory clench his teeth. Heart pounding, he looked to the watch on his wrist. It flashed red in quick bursts. Crap! That was the second time this week. If he kept upsetting his emotion-monitoring implant, they’d come to clean him. Like the Corporation said, ‘Emotions lead to questions. Questions lead to independent thought. Independent thought leads to anarchy.’

Rory straightened his back, reciting the Corporation’s Preamble to suppress his deviant thoughts. We, the subordinates of the Corporation, in order to form a more perfect human, establish authority, ensure uniformity …

He glanced at his black-banded watch again and gave a sigh of relief. Blue skies.

The harsh monotonous buzz of the heart monitor blared through the speakers, demanding Rory’s attention. The surgeon took off his gloves and told the one-eyed medbots to record the time of death. He exited the operating room, Rory mulling over the peculiar situation before the surgeon entered the viewing room moments later.

“I take it you’re Rory Bennels?” the surgeon asked in a cold, clinical tone.

“That’s right.”

He handed Rory a thin tablet that activated upon his touch. “Retrieve this man’s mind. Upload it to the Corporation mainframe.”

Rory scanned the digital dossier, then gazed upon Epher's covered body on the gurney.

“Is something wrong?”

"Epher Lore, isn't he--"

“That information is not relevant,” the surgeon snapped. He grimaced at Rory with calculating gray eyes. “Are you sweating?”

Stay calm, stay calm. Rory maintained eye contact. “Minor synaptic misfire,” he explained, flashing his watch that glowed a healthy bright blue.

The surgeon nodded, ushering Rory to follow him to collect the body.


About Jonathan Pongratz:

Jonathan Pongratz is a writer and author of captivating horror, fantasy, and other speculative fiction stories. When he’s not writing, he’s busy being a bookworm, video game junkie, and karaoke vocalist. A former resident of Dallas, he currently resides in Kansas City with his halloween cat Ajax. By day he works magic in finance, by night he creates dark and mesmerizing worlds.

Where to buy Conscience:

Amazon click here.

GoodReads click here.

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Story Time – Bay Area Queer Writers Association

Hello Scribblers. Am I the only one who is absolutely hating this heatwave.  It’s crazy. I know California typically gets one or two of these a year. I’ll never get used to them. They sure suck. And don’t even get me started on all the fires.  It’s been insane.

Today I wanted to share with you that this Saturday August 22nd at 4pm the writers of BAQWA (Bay Area Queer Writers Association) will be hosting a Story Time (virtual reading) this will be our second virtual event. We were so impressed with the turnout of the last one, we decided to do another one. The plan is to offer virtual readings on a regular basis, so check out my event page (click here), or join our group on Facebook so you never miss out. Click here.

I’m very excited to be doing another one of these, maybe at some point I’ll get more comfortable in front of the camera. Let me know down below what you think I should read from. The choices are: Conviction (Book 2 – A New World), T.A.D. – The Angel of Death, The Reunion, or A Dragon for Christmas. Cast your vote and stop by on Saturday at 4pm to see what I’ll be reading.

Here is a direct link to the event:

https://www.facebook.com/events/303856394182119

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Also, this week, I wanted to share the exciting news that I received the pre-edits for The Called (the second and final book in my The Calling series). I’m really thrilled to get these, because it means we are that much closer to the release of the final novel in this duology. If all goes well the book should be out early next year (January or February), but perhaps it’ll be sooner.

Here is the book blurb to wet your appetite:

The world is changing quickly for Chris now that he’s part of the Immortal Community. With the events of his past finally behind him, he’s still having visions and true magic is gradually taking hold in our world. There are new challenges that the Immortals must face, but Chris is still new and has no real standing in the immortal community. Learning that nothing in the Immortal community is what Chris thought and now having to face new threats, how will his new world unfold? Old enemies must work together and longtime friends may not be trustworthy. Who is lurking in the shadows? Why are they here? What does this mean for witches, immortals and humans?

Can Chris’ visions even be trusted given recent events, and how easily his mind is manipulated? With Juliet, Amanda, and Kirtus by his side they have to prevent the immortal and witch community from being exposed. Can they trust the local witches that are there to assist them? Can they trust their fellow Immortals? New friendships are made, and longtime alliances are called into question. How will The Called defeat these latest threats, and what does it mean for our world?

And that is all I have for you this week Scribblers. Don’t forget to leave me a comment and let me know what story you want me to read from this Saturday. Additionally, are you looking forward to The Called?  Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Interview with R.L. (Ro) Merrill

Happy Wednesday Scribblers. This week I have another author interview for you. Today I welcome award-winning author R.L. (Ro) Merrill to sit down and have a chat. Let’s dig in.

Welcome Ro, I’m so glad to have you were on my blog.  Your bio is below for folks to read, so why don’t you tell us what’s not in the bio, by way of an introduction.

My 13yo boy inner child laughs at any and all innuendo, intentional or not, and doesn’t matter if anyone else in the room even noticed. I danced for many years, was a choreographer for high school and college musicals as well as cheer squads...yeah I was a cheerleader too. I’ve watched Evil Dead 2 way more times than is healthy. I eat too much chocolate and drink Diet Coke like it’s going out of style.

In your bio you mention you love writing stories full of love, hope, and rock 'n' roll where folks from all walks of life will find their happily ever after, that is a tall order, tell us about that. What does that look like in your writing?

I write romance because it’s always about hope. I have been a teacher for 26 years, a school counselor for 9 of those, and I worked as an advocate for victims of Domestic Violence in the police department. I’ve seen...a lot. I want to tell the stories of people who can’t speak for themselves. I want my readers to walk away from one of my books having learned something and maybe even developing some empathy. And since I’m a mom, I just want to give everyone who’s hurting a hug. Isn’t a good book sort of like a hug?

I know you were self published for quite some time, then you moved over to Dreamspinner. What was it like going from Self Pub, to a traditional publishing house? What did you enjoy about both? What didn’t you enjoy about both?

I loved working with Dreamspinner. Everything was so organized, they thought of everything. Financially it was lovely to not pay for editing and a cover, and I worked with the most talented folks. Of course, with self-publishing I got to set my release dates, and sometimes waiting for my DSP books to come out was torture. That was really the only downside of working with a publisher. The financial aspect is a different story. I like doing a combination of both and hope to work with a publisher again someday, but I’ll definitely ask more questions.

You have quite the library of books under your belt. You say you write; contemporary, paranormal, and historical horror romance, that is quite the list. How do you decide what you are going to write next? Do you plan out your books or do you go with the flow?

Before I started writing, I read strictly horror and paranormal, so I figured when I published my first book it would be one of those. But no. My first book I wrote was indeed a paranormal romance, but I sat on it for several years before putting it out this year (Healer). The first book I published was a contemporary romance. I have no idea how that happened. The characters are rock stars who invite a tattoo artist to stay with them so she can design a memorial tattoo for them for their manager who passed away. At the time I wrote it, I’d just gone to New Orleans for the first time, I was in the middle of getting a massive back piece done, and my father had just passed away. I had some feelings about that, and out came the book. And I was hooked.

I love to write a variety of things and don’t think I could stick to just one. I decide what to write based on when things are due for the most part haha. My group paranormal project with Robyn Peterman, the Magic and Mayhem Universe, puts out books twice a year and we have strict due dates. I’ve worked on a lot of anthologies, and they have due dates. I prefer working on charity projects for the most part if it’s an anthology. If it’s truly a solo project, usually I want to make sure it’s not too long between books...because I have a few series that I’ve waited too long and I hate to do that to readers. I know how it feels to wait for something, and I’m not good at waiting either. I do the minimum plotting for books, usually just character arcs and beats, and I plan out my writing schedule every six months.

What have you enjoyed the most about the writing process and sharing your stories?

The people I’ve met along the way. Learning and seeing improvement. RESEARCH hahaha. Hearing from readers that my books have made a difference in their lives.

Now I know you have a day job, as a teacher. I have to ask, have any of your students or teaching life been written into any of your stories?

Yes. Absolutely. Let that be a lesson to them all haha. One of my books was based on a very difficult experience I went through as an educator. I’ve taken it down for a bit as it needs some revisions, but I love the book and plan to put it out again. It was based on a year I worked as a counselor at a continuation high school. We had a series of shootings and murders in the city where I work. One of my students was shot at a bus stop, one of my other student’s little brother was shot and killed in front of the office of the school where I now work. By kids who were my students. I think about him and his brother every day. The student I wrote into this story was based on a kid that I worked with when he was in sixth grade and then he came to the continuation school for high school. Brilliant, talented, angry. His mother and I were very close. I worried about him every day. He got into a horrible fight one day that I had to break up along with our campus monitor and it was awful. He ended up being expelled and it was years before

I see you have a passion for animals, Diet Coke, and Chocolate. What else do you enjoy? When you aren’t creating puns with your husband, being a mom, working, and writing, what do you like to do?

I like running away with my friend Karysa and visiting “haunted” places. I love going to concerts and music festivals. I’m desperately missing book conventions. I had several events lined up this year and now it could be 2022 before I see my bookish friends. I love watching movies with my fam. We’ve caught some good ones during quarantine. We’ve also been rewatching favorite shows like West Wing, Deadwood, and Avatar: The Last Airbender. I’ve been able to garden, which is awesome, although I’ve discovered I’m great at providing food for pests but not great at growing stuff for me. My pumpkins are doing great, though. This year I’m growing my own Halloween decorations!

What can we see coming out from you next?

I’m re-releasing several books in the next two months and I have a new release coming August 24th titled Brains and Brawn. It’s the second book in the Summer of Hush series, which follows a metalcore band on the last cross-country Warped Tour that took place in 2018. The band is having a comeback moment when tragedy strikes and their drummer ends up with a broken leg and a health scare that threatens his and the band’s future. Thankfully he falls into the capable hands of a nearly-retired Navy corpsman who is happy to help with his rehabilitation. Hope, Love and Rock ‘n’ Roll on the road...which we can’t do in real life now so enjoy the fantasy! After that will be another Magic and Mayhem Universe in October and a holiday novella...then in early 2021 will be the follow up to Healer: Havenhart Academy Book One. That’s the plan now, but you never know what’s going to happen.

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Thank you so much for stopping by today Ro. It was great having you. Do you have questions for Ro? Leave them below and I’ll be sure to have her swing by and answer them. Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

About RL’s Lastest Work:

Love Is All Volume 3 anthology

I Want, More by R.L. Merrill

Hotshot music producer Morrison Jones has been hired by legendary metal god, Aldous Archer, to record his comeback album—and he insists Morrison work with his former best friend turned nemesis. Leland Elliott swore he’d never step foot onstage with Morrison ever again, but time—and being stuck in a studio together for a week—has a way of healing wounds. Will the stars align for the former bandmates? Welcome to Bolder Breed Studios.

All proceeds from this limited-time collection will be donated to the Marsha P. Johnson Institute to support Black Trans awareness. Find out more here.

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About RL Merrill:

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“With a strong plot, an expertly crafted cast of supporting characters, and deep empathy, Merrill’s novel will keep readers hooked.” —Publishers Weekly review of Typhoon Toby.

R.L. Merrill brings you stories of Hope, Love, and Rock 'n' Roll featuring quirky and relatable characters. Whether she’s writing about contemporary issues that affect us all or diving deep into the paranormal and supernatural to give readers a shiver, she loves creating compelling stories that will stay with readers long after. Winner of the Kathryn Hayes “When Sparks Fly” Best Contemporary award for Hurricane Reese, Foreword INDIES finalist for Summer of Hush and RONE finalist for Typhoon Toby, Ro spends every spare moment improving her writing craft and striving to find that perfect balance between real-life and happily ever after. She writes diverse and inclusive romance, contributes paranormal hilarity to Robyn Peterman’s Magic and Mayhem Universe, and works on various other writing and mentoring projects that tickle her fancy or benefit a worthy cause. You can find her connecting with readers on social media, educating America’s youth, raising two brilliant teenagers, trying desperately to get that back piece finished in the tattoo chair, or headbanging at a rock show near her home in the San Francisco Bay Area! Stay Tuned for more Rock 'n' Romance.

Where to Find RL Merrill:

Find her website here:  www.rlmerrillauthor.com Website and Newsletter-y Thingie

Find her books here.

Find her on Facebook here.

Find her on Twitter here.

Find her on Instagram here.

Absent Friends

Hello Scribblers. Another week has flow by. Over the last few days, I’ve thought a lot about people from my past.  Friends who at a time in my life were important to me. They helped me in so many ways, then over time we lost touch, they moved away, or of course, they passed on. This is how I define an absent friend and they play a big role in our lives, or at least they do in mine.

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It’s funny in a way, when I think of certain friends I smile or I remember something crazy stupid we might have done. I have a laugh then I get nostalgic. I wonder what happened? What changed? Was it a fight? Was it something that was said or done? Was it life? What would they say or do now if they were still with us. Was there something that I could have done or said to ensure they were still here? For whatever reason life changed, we grew apart and then they were gone.

At this moment, I can think of at least five absent friends who I remember and miss on a regular bases. They showed me and taught me things that I know I would have never learned otherwise. Some of it good and some of it not.

I morn these losses.

I, also, celebrate these times.

I celebrate because of what I learned from these people. Whether I learned more about life and how to live it, myself and how people see me and how I see myself, or about the world in general, not everyone has the same history or background so what might make perfect sense to me and be a ‘no brainer’ is in fact difficult and not as intuitive for others. These were important lessons and by extension those that taught them to me are important. So, I wonder what happen to them. What they are doing now. Where they are. How they are getting along. Who they are with. Are they happy. Are they looking down from above? Do they think back fondly on the time we were friends or do I not even get a passing thought? It’s interesting to think about.

Assuming they are alive, you would think finding them and being able to check in on them would be easy given the prevalence of Social Media these days, but even with that, not everyone is on social media and not everyone wants to be found. Some of these people, who for whatever reason affected us greatly have even gone so far as to ensure we can’t find them.  Which is fine, they have to take care of themselves. I know, for myself, I’m sure there are people out there who think I was a terrible friend. Heck, I could even be the villain of their story. And I’ve come to peace with that.

What others think of you is none of your business.

Still, I’d like to think that they learned as much from me as I’ve learned from them, but maybe not. There is no rule that says education has to be a two-way street.

Still, these people, these wonderful individuals where important to me and I find, at times, that I miss them and I wonder about them. I hope they are happy and healthy. For those that have moved on from this world I hope they are watching down on us and continue to check in.

Absent friends don’t have to be looked back on in a negative manner, because even the worst of them taught us something and for that we should be grateful. Painful lessons are often the best teachers for us. I think I’ve learned more from being hurt by friends than any other way. Being taken advantage of, being lied to, being physically hurt and being emotionally traumatized are all powerful tools. They suck, and are terrible, but you learn and it is doubtful you will ever have to go through that again.

Lessons are what life is all about. We learn. We grow. We move forward. At least that is the hope. And absent friends, as well as friends, are there to help teach us these lessons making us who we are now… hopefully that is someone better than we were before.

Let’s all be better. Let’s take the lessons we’ve learned from friends and absent friends to heart so their lessons were not in vain.

That is all for now, my lovely Scribblers. What about you? Do you have absent friends who have taught you a great deal, but for one reason or another are now gone from your life? Share your stories below. Please remember to drop me a heart/like letting me know you stopped by. If you want to help support me and my writing efforts please consider sharing this post on your social media platforms to help keep the conversation going. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

Interview with Author Mike Lopez

Happy Wednesday everyone. This week I want to say a big hello to fellow Author Mike Lopez. I had the pleasure of meeting Mike through one of the writing groups we belong to Queer Sacramento Authors Collective (QSac) find out more about the group here.

Without further ado let’s get to my interview with Mike Lopez.

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Welcome Mike. I’m so glad you were able to stop by. Now before we get started please tell everyone about yourself (something not in the bio):

I am a Gemini, raised the Hawaiian way, the baby of the family, traveled half the globe, am an INTJ, believes in the Native American way, enjoys being the Historian, breathes X-men comics, and relishes being creative.

I know you write Young Adult Novels (mainly girl power books) and poetry, what got you interested in these types of genres?

The reason I chose young adult novels (mainly girl power books) is from a children’s literature class I took in college in the late 80s. The teacher set up a two-day assignment up. “Think of a series where a boy/teen is the main character/protagonist.” It was an hour class, and we filled up the chalkboard. (Yes, boys and girls, I am dating myself talking about what we had to put up with in the olden days). Day two, it was the girl’s turn. We tried and tried and only came up with four. (My addition was Nancy Drew from the 60s). That was an AHA moment. That was the teacher’s point. “How is this fair? This is for your generation to figure out.” This stuck with me.

For poetry, it was discovering e. e. cummings, the rule breaker, that did it for me. I was fascinated with him. How could he do this? How is he published? Why did he do this? That last question really sent me on my journey. I researched the man. I read most of his poetry. I found my holy grail, the black sheep of poetry. Your art doesn’t have to fit in a box, follow the rules, or make sense. That was bold and daring. I wanted to be like him. I was inspired to try.

Regarding your Zoey Le Mar series, what can you tell us about the books and about the series? What can we expect to see in these books? What makes them special?

I lovingly refer my books as the Girls of the Traveling Pants adventure in the Harry Potter realm. The specialness is that smart, sassy, multicultural girls are the main characters and deal with the unsuspected reality of magic, mayhem, and monsters. They are female heroines upfront and center, role models if you may. Ready or not, they are tried and tested. They have to figure it out, fight, stay alive, and get back home, relying on themselves and each other. It is gritty and edgy. Their plans work and fail. It is trial and error. The consequences are grave and deadly. It is truly about girl power.

Staying with the Zoey La Mar series a moment, what are your plans for the series? How many books do you have planned for the series? When you think about the series, where would you like to see it go; a TV Series, a movie franchise, or something else?

The plan for the Zoey Le Mar series is to eventually do five books. One for each of the girl’s ethnic heritages and the last one to be a great conclusion to all the magic, mayhem, and monsters. I would love to see it go to a cartoon movie series since I would love to have all the magical effects be main stage and not be cut out or cheap. That is hope one. For hope two, I would love for Peter Jackson to do it like he did for Lord of the Rings. No, I haven’t thought about this at all. LOL!

You also write poetry, which I’ve had a chance to read some, where do you find your voice to write such amazing prose?

I had a hard time expressing my feelings out loud. I internalized them, bottled them up. After a lesson in literature class my freshman year of high school, that teacher suggested that I write. In the early 80s, this was huge. I had an outlet. I channeled my pent up emotional upheaval into prose. Poetry became my diary. Later on in college and beyond, I used writing as therapy, getting it out of my system or to remember a great memory. The energy needed to go somewhere productive and constructive. My voice is the passion that I bring to most of my life. I need to be bold and authentic. Also, I keep these quotes from Eleanor Roosevelt around to push and remind me, “Well behaved women rarely make history,” and “Speak your mind even though your voice shakes.” For me, this means to share my gift even if I am not noticed. I stand up. I make the effort. I do this for me; everyone else is bonus.

When, you’re not writing, I understand you are a teacher, how has teaching affected your writing? Do you find that you are able to pull real life experiences from your students and incorporate them in your stories?

For the children’s book series, I have pulled a lot from my students over the years. My characters come for an amalgam of several student’s personalities, quirks, and mannerisms. Then, of course, I also use the great and invaluable out-of-the-mouth-of-babes nuggets that they say. With the first book, I let some of my students read brief chapters and give me feedback. I listened and tried to do as much as they suggested since they are my audience. I put in dedications for my inspirations and freelancing helpers.

What is something you want readers of your works to take away from your stories? Do you have a message you want them to take away?

With the children’s book series, each book has its individual theme about a character’s heritage. Book one brings the magical and monsters of merry old England. Book two contains atrocities done to Native Americans and their unrest. Books three has an old Chinese myth come to life as well as the New World. These books also included lessons on family relationships, friendship, keeping a secret identity, lying, making hard choices, and fighting for the greater good. The quotes on the cover hint to a theme or lesson. It is really typical preteen and teenage angst. LOL!

From the poetry, it is sharing what I have seen and experienced. How I reacted, dealt, pondered, lived with, and healed from my experiences. It is raw, powerful, humorous, beautiful, and sad. It is love and loss. It is yin and yang. It is life in all its glorious malevolence.

Finally, what do you have coming next? What’s up for Mike Lopez and his writing?

I am trying to finish a third book of poetry. Once I complete that, I will either do a gay amateur detective story or have a go at a gay sci-fi story. 

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Well, that was my interview with author and poet Mike Lopez. A big shout of thanks to Mike for taking the time to join us today. If you have questions for Mike please leave them in the comments and he’ll respond. Check out Mike’s books and don’t forget to find him on social media and keep up to date with everything he’s up to. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week.

About Mike Lopez:

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Author Michael Lopez grew up as an Air Force brat and later became an elementary school teacher. Now he taps in those experiences in the first of a planned series of books which puts smart and sassy girls as forefront heroes. Michael drew from his many experiences growing up and teaching to come up with his characters and plot ideas. 

Starting him on this journey, Michael recalled an experience from a college children's literature class that sparked this girl power idea. He was later reminded of that when his students requested more contemporary reading material with girls as main characters. 

Also, Michael Lopez pens romance, heartache, life-lessons, and humor in a pair of raw books of gripping poetry. 

Where to contact Mike Lopez:

 Email Mike here: alldarron@hotmail.com

His website is here.

Find him on Facebook here.

Find his books here.

Virtual Book Reading

Hello Scribblers and a happy Wednesday to you all. This week, well this last weekend, in case you haven’t heard yet, I was part of a virtual book reading with one of the writers’ groups I belong to; the Bay Area Queer Writers Association (BAQWA). There were six of us reading from our various works. We had a blast.

There was a little something for everyone. We had readings from romance, fantasy, vampires, and even an essay about South Africa. The reading, and our readers were quite the mix.  If you missed it check it out by clicking here.

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To learn more about BAQWA and our group of authors click here.

For the virtual book reading I read from my debut novel The Calling. If you would like to view the reading (which I would love) check it out below.

Don’t forget I have several books out right now, not just The Calling. You can find all my works here.

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That’s it for this week, I’m keeping it nice and short. Next week I’m having another amazing guest author here for chat so keep an eye open for that. Check out the reading and learn more about the amazing authors from BAQWA and their works. Is there something you would like me to read from for my next book reading? The Calling was requested by a fan, so if there is a book of mine you’d like me to read from let me know in the comments below. Until next time, please stay safe, wear a mask, support each other, and practice social distancing.

Interview with Author Glenn Quigley

Happy Wednesday everyone this week I want to say a big hello to fellow NineStar Press Author Glenn Quigley who hails all the way from Northern Ireland. As many of you may remember I had Glen on a while ago to talk about his amazing novels the Moth and Moon and the sequel The Lion Lies Waiting, both are fantastic reads find the interview here and pick up the books here.

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Welcome back Glenn. It’s been way to long since we’ve had a nice sit down. Now before we get started please tell everyone about yourself (something not in the bio):

After years of thinking about it but never doing it, I was in the middle of finally learning how to swim when the lockdown happened. So as soon as I can, I’m getting back into a pool and hoping I can remember how to float. 

What have you been doing since the last time you were here?

I’ve finally given in and bought myself an easel for my charcoal drawing and you know what? It’s great. I should have bought one years ago. I held off because I thought it would take up too much room but its fine and makes me feel like a proper artist. Next up, a beret.

I’ve written book three in my Moth and Moon series and I’ve started book four, which is going to be a prequel. So I guess that makes it book zero?

Last time you were here, I mentioned that you were not only a writer but also an artist. Tell us about your art?  When did you start drawing? What was your inspiration? Do you only do graphic design?

I’ve been drawing since I was a very young child. I’m a comicbook fan and my school books were filled with doodles of my own superhero characters. (And eyes. Everyone drew eyes, right?)

My mother is an artist and taught me a lot about painting and encouraged me to pursue art (and writing). We took some art classes together in the local library, too, which led to me having work displayed in the National Gallery in Ireland. I tend to bounce around with different mediums. Currently, it’s charcoal, which I hadn’t used since I was a teenager. I really love it, especially for portraits. My graphic design work these days tends to be mainly t-shirt design for The Moody Bear find them here and I’m currently working on a whole new range in a whole new style, so watch this space. 

Do you do contract art? Say if someone wanted to have you draw their characters from one of their books?

I actually did do some bespoke art for a novelist. I ran a Twitter competition where the prize was to have a character drawn. The winner was Kristin Noone and she chose Oliver from her novel A Prophecy for Two. It was a fun experience and I’d definitely do it again. I take commissions so maybe I should think about reaching out to authors.

Okay, tell us about your writing I know you have your two amazing books out right now, so what’s coming up next? Sequels? New stories? What?

The next book is the third in the series that began with The Moth and Moon and it sees someone getting shipwrecked on the island and revealing some shocking news that sends burly fisherman Robin Shipp on a perilous journey alone across the ocean. I can’t reveal any more at the moment, but it’s the biggest book I’ve written so far and I’m excited to get it out there.

All of your books are more or less historical fantasy, have you thought about a different genre? What genre would you love to write, but you haven’t gotten around to writing in it yet? Or does the idea intimidate you too much? 

I’m a huge sci-fi fan so I think that will be my next genre. I actually had an idea the other night for a story that I’ve been fleshing out. It’s quite an intimidating genre to jump into but I think it could be fun. I think the trick it to tell myself that no one else ever has to read it, so that way I can just relax and get into it.

Last question, what is the one thing you would love readers of you books to be left with? What message do you hope readers will walk with?

I hope that people are left with a sense of what the world could be like if we abandon our prejudices. I hope it makes them see the world a little more kindly.

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Thank you Glenn for coming over and chatting with us today. Check out Glenn’s amazing artwork and don’t forget to read his books. Also find Glenn on social media and keep up to date with everything he is up to. Until next time I hope you stay safe and have a great week. 

About Glenn Quigley:

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Glenn Quigley is a graphic designer originally from Dublin and now living in Lisburn, Northern Ireland. He creates bear designs for The Moody Bear (click here). He has been interested in writing since he was a child, as essay writing was the one and only thing he was ever any good at in school. When not writing or designing, he enjoys photography and watercolor painting.

Where to contact Glenn Quigley:

Find him on Twitter here.

Reach him on Facebook here.

Check out his website here.


Where to buy Glenn’s books:

Find them on Amazon here.

Get your copy from Ninestar Press here.

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